its sad how last year i had to write a paper every weekend and i could do it with ease, but this year i finally have to write one and i cant even bring myself to do it at all. its not even a hard paper but i am just so lazy and used to having no homework. senioritis is a bitch.
how do people stay married without getting bored, or wanting to move on cause they get in a big fight or are unhappy?
because going into a marriage you should know that its not always gonna be all lovely dovey and new feeling. love is about commitment and trust and loyalty, so even after that tingly lovey feeling inside fades there should be something deeper. when you make that promise to someone, you cant just “get bored” and change your mind. it doesnt work like that.
ok thats enough being fucking dr phil for one night.
what did you learn about yourself and realtionships.
wow lots of questions. but basically i just learned like what i should tolerate and what i shouldnt. and how to communicate and compromise between each other. and talk things out. a lot more stuff but im getting lazy. i would appreciate it if you would come off on anon so we could have this conversation if you really want
is it worth puttiing up with your ex or having your heart broken? why break up anyway. it seems that through the hardache. you still were there for each other and care about one another.
i mean yeah it hurt a lot and it still hurts sometimes, but i wouldnt change anything because i learned so much about myself and relationships in general. but i guess we were just no longer were making each other happy anymore, so we needed to break up. it would have just hurt even more to stay together.
you have to learn to love someone, love is not lust. it wasnt just a physical attraction, it was based on so much more then that. i mean of course you have to have physical attraction but he was also my best friend. he knew me better than anyone and i knew him better than anyone. i could talk to him about anything at all in the world and he knew exactly what to say to make me feel better. even though he wasnt perfect at all, to me i could not have asked for anything more. no matter what he said or did, nothing changed the way that i felt about him. even now, after soo much shit that we have been through, i still feel the same way about him and i just want him to be happy, even if its not with me…i guess thats how i knew.its hard to put into words.